Article #101

I am not sure what his intentions were.

Sunday april 22nd 4.30am one of the lchaims that i went to last week i had a little interesting incident at this lchaim.i came in to the lchaim i met the mother of the choson outside of the hall.it was inside the building but not inside the hall.the mother of the choson was setting things up there outside of the hall.i came in i saw the mother of the choson outside of the hall.i gave her mazel tov on her sons engagement.the mother of the  choson was very happy to see me there.right after i gave the mother of the choson mazel tov another son not the one that got engaged.a different son not the one that got engaged goes over to his mother & on front of me tells his mother to ask me to leave.the mother said no.the son repeated it again telling his mother to ask me to leave.the mother again said no.the son then asks his me if he can ask me to leave the mother said no again.even though the mother was happy to see me there i felt very unsafe being there & i decided to leave on my own even though the mother was happy to see me there.i did not want to take any chances of this son doing anything to me at his brothers lchaim & that is the reason why i left.this was inside the building but outside of the hall.the mother was setting things up over there.

Let me show you how the conversation went

SON   can you ask this guy to leave?

MOTHER   no

SON please ask this guy to leave

MOTHER   no

SON   can i ask this guy to leave?

MOTHER   no

& this is how the conversation went in between the son that is not the choson & his mother.

I got very frightened & decided to leave.i did not want to take any chances of this guy doing anything to me at his brothers lchaim & that is the reason why i left.this was in the building but not in the hall where it was taking place at.i don,t even know if the choson or his father were there yet at that time.i was too scared to go into the hall after seeing what that son said to his mother against me.i met the mother of the choson in the building but outside of the hall.she was setting things up there at that time & that is where this incident happened.

Now the son who is only a brother of the choson & not the choson himself i can look at it in 2 different ways.

One way of looking at it is that the son did not realize how frightened i got when he said that to his mother on front of me & if the son would have realized that his behavior was going to frighten me then he would not have said that to his mother on front of me & he had no intention of doing anything to me if i would have stayed at the lchaim.that is one way of looking at it.

The other way of looking at it is that the son knew that saying that to his mother on front of me would have frightened me & did it anyways just to frighten me & would have done something to me if i would have stayed at the lchaim.that is the other way of looking at it.

The thing is that what was on this son,s mind when he said that to his mother on front of me as she was setting things up outside of the hall?i am trying to figure that out.because if the son did not mean to frighten me & had no intention of doing anything to me if i would have stayed at the lchaim then that is just freedom of speach & i can not take any legal action against the son for something like that but if the son knew that he frightened me & had plans to do something to me if i would have stayed there then that son is in alot of trouble if he was planning to do something to me if i would have stayed there.the thing is that was this son really planning to do something to me if i would have stayed there?i am trying to figure that out.

Most  of the time when i have an incident with a jcw gangster i know what his intentions are.this is one of the rare times where i am not sure what his intentions are.

The reason i am bringing this up is very simple.if the son had no intention of doing anything to me if i would have stayed at his brothers lchaim & did not mean to frighten me like that then i just want to let him know that he got me very frightened by speaking to his mother like that on front of me but if the son was well aware that speaking to his mother like that on front of me was going to frighten me & had plans to do something to me if i would have stayed here then he had better make sure that i don,t find out about it because if i find out that he was planning to do something to me if i would have stayed at his brothers lchaim then he is in alot of trouble if that was his intention & i find out about it.

I am not asking anybody to be my friend.anybody that feels that i am not the right person to be friends with & they don,t want to have anything to do with me thats fine & i have nothing against

you for it but if the mother of the choson is happy to see me there & the mother of the choson does not want me to leave & you try doing anything to me for staying at a lchaim when the mother of the choson wanted me there then you are in alot of trouble if you try doing anything to me for staying at that lchaim.the thing is that i am not 100% sure if the son had plans to do anything to me if i would have stayed there.but even if he had no intention of doing anything to me for staying at his brothers lchaim i just want to make sure he knows that he frightened me by speaking to his mother like that on front of me.

Menachem piekarski