ADOPTION
sunday oct 20th 2013 9.06pm now it,s going to be a little bit
difficult to explain but I will try to explain it the best way
possible.when I was living in my parents house my parents had a very
abusive policy on me.anytime that I would go over to either my father
or my mother & complain to them against any of my brothers or
sisters my parents would always tell me that if I don,t like
something in this house then I can leave.& at the same time if
one of my brothers or sisters would complain to my parents against me
I would always get into trouble.all of my brothers or sisters know
that they have the full freedom of starting up with me with
absolutely no fear of getting into trouble at all.
Then I had a whole bunch of problems
with my father that had nothing to do with my brothers or sisters.for
example one of the problems that I had with my father was that winter
clothing like coats, gloves, scarfs & things like that my father
would never buy me any of those things.i had to pay for it out of my
own money.but that wasn,t the only problem.let me tell you what
happened after that.if the temperature outside was too high my father
would not let me go outside with a wintercoat if the temperature was
above 40 degrees & he would take away clothing that I paid for
out of my own money.the fact that I had to pay for all the winter
clothes that wasn,t so bad but when he takes away clothing that I
paid for out of my own money what am I supposed to do?
Now when I left my parents house almost
22 years ago at age 25(i am 47 now)as soon as I left my parents
started calling me up asking me to come back home.
Now it,s going to be a little difficult
to explain but I will try to explain it the best way possible.
when I was living in my parents house
under their support if my parents would have put me up for adoption
there is a very high chance that my adoptive parents would have taken
better care of me than they did & my life would have been a lot
happier than the way it is now at.but instead of putting me up for
adoption they decided to abuse me & because of that that,s the
reason why my life is the way it is now at.
Now it,s going to be a little difficult
to explain but I will try to explain it the best way possible.
I don,t know how old I was when my
parents realized that I am disabled but I know that I was under 18
years old when my parents realized that I am disabled.
Now when my parents realized that I am
disabled let me tell you what they should have done.
They should have said to themselves
like this.
Menachem is disabled.we do not have the
patience to take care of him the way that we are supposed to we are
going to put him up for adoption & hopefully his adoptive parents
will take better care of him than we are able to.
That is what my parents should have
done as soon as they realized that I am disabled.
But instead of putting me up for
adoption they decided to abuse me inside the house & look what
kind of life I am going through right now.(crown heights watch,
jewish community watch, yanky prager, meir seewald, noson ezagui
all the abuse that I am going through right now).
Now the abuse is still not over.& I
will show you how.if my parents would have put me up for adoption
there is a very high chance that my adoptive parents would have taken
better care of me than they did & my life would have been a lot
happier than the way it is now at.
But now the abuse is still not over.i
have my family sending me invitations asking me to come to all the
simchas in the family so this time I sent my brother chaim an e-mail
asking him not to send me any more invitations.so when I e-mailed
this to me brother he gives me a reply back telling me that he is
going to continue sending me invitations even though I asked him not
to.
It,s bad enough that my parents did not
put me up for adoption the way that they were supposed to but now I
have my brother chaim telling me that he is going to continue sending
me invitations even though I asked him not to.
Here I am going to show you the e-mail
that I sent to my brother chaim & look at the response that he
gave me.here it is.
7184046404@vzwpix.com
Sep 9
to me
Mazel Tov on the engagement of our
daughter Rochel to Yossi Berkes The Vort will take place Tuesday
evening at Lubavitcher Yeshiva Albany Ave Between Crown st and
Montgomery St. 8PM Chaim Piekarski
Menachem Piekarski
<mpiekarski79@gmail.com>
5:27 AM (14 hours ago)
to 7184046404
chaim.can you please take me off your
mailing list & stop sending me invitations everytime that you
make a simcha.
your brother menachem.
7184046404@vtext.com
7:40 AM (12 hours ago)
to me
Since you are my brother I will
continue to send you invitations. It is your choice whether to come
or not.
This is exactly what I mean by
abuse.not only didn,t my parents put me up for adoption the way that
they were supposed to but now they are sending me invitations asking
me to come to all the family simchas & when I ask my brother
chaim not to send me any more invitations look what he says to me.
This is exactly what I mean by abuse.
Menachem piekarski.
